The Cat Code: Play It Cool and Watch What Comes to You

The Cat Mentality: Why What You Want Comes When You Stop Chasing

Dear Friend,

Let’s continue our talk about the art of detachment—or as I like to call it, the fine art of not gripping life by the throat and demanding it give you what you want.

I know, I know—letting go sounds counterintuitive. We’ve been programmed to believe that if we don’t chase something, it’ll never come. That if we don’t constantly remind life of our desires, we’ll be left empty-handed. But here’s the great irony: the more you chase, the faster it runs.

Think about it. Ever tried running after a cat? The moment it senses desperation, it bolts under the nearest piece of furniture. But if you just sit there, minding your business, suddenly, here comes the cat—rubbing against your leg like you were the one who was hard to get.

Life works the same way. When you’re gripping too tightly, overthinking, or forcing things into place, you create resistance. It’s like trying to shove a square peg into a round hole while muttering, “This will fit.” But when you lean back, relax, and trust? What’s meant for you just clicks. No begging, no chasing—just alignment.

Now, let’s address the skeptics in the back. “So you’re saying I should just sit around and do nothing?” Not quite. Detachment doesn’t mean apathy—it means knowing your worth and having enough faith to allow things to unfold naturally. It means taking inspired action, but leaving space for things to come to you rather than exhausting yourself running toward them.

Consider this: Have you ever met someone who was so desperately trying to impress you that it had the opposite effect? Meanwhile, the person who is simply themselves, fully in their own authentic energy, becomes magnetic. That’s the essence of not chasing. You don’t have to hunt down what’s meant for you—it recognizes you.

So, dear friend, let’s make a pact. Let’s stop gripping, stop chasing, and stop forcing. Instead, let’s become so aligned, at peace, and in flow that the things meant for us have no choice but to find us. Effortlessly. Just like that cat that suddenly decides you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to them.

With love & light,

Jennifer ~ xox ❤️